Appropriate vs Inappropriate Behaviors in Autism Classrooms: Tools for Teachers

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By N Benassila, PhD

I. Introduction: Understanding Behavior Challenges in Autism Classrooms

Teaching children with autism appropriate classroom behavior can be both rewarding and challenging. Many educators find themselves unsure of how to respond when students behave in ways that disrupt learning. Understanding what drives these behaviors is the first step in creating a supportive learning space.

Children with autism often face difficulties with communication, sensory regulation, and understanding social cues. This can lead to behaviors that are labeled as “inappropriate”—not out of defiance, but due to a lack of skill or understanding. Recognizing this gap allows teachers to approach behavior as something to be taught, not punished.

Appropriate behavior includes actions like raising a hand to speak, following directions, or working quietly. Inappropriate behavior might involve shouting out answers, refusing to follow routines, or invading others’ personal space. But instead of jumping to discipline, we can equip students with the tools they need to succeed.


II. Building the Foundation: Teaching Behavior Skills Proactively

1. Create a Safe and Structured Environment

Children with autism thrive on routine and predictability. A structured environment helps reduce anxiety and increases engagement.

  • Use visual schedules to show what happens next.
  • Offer choices when possible to give a sense of control.
  • Keep classroom rules simple and consistent.

Predictability helps students feel safe. When the classroom is calm and organized, students are more likely to show appropriate behaviors.

2. Model and Teach Expected Behaviors Explicitly

Don’t assume students already know how to behave in class. Teach behavior the same way you would teach reading or math.

  • Use clear, simple language.
  • Show what expected behavior looks like.
  • Role-play common situations, like asking for help or waiting in line.

Social stories and visual examples are powerful tools here. They allow students to visualize the right way to behave in a given situation.

3. Incorporate Visual and Interactive Supports

Visual aids help reinforce lessons about behavior. Students with autism often process visual information more easily than spoken words.

Try these tools:

  • “Expected vs Unexpected” behavior charts
  • Emotion posters
  • First-Then boards
  • Visual cue cards (e.g., “Quiet Voice,” “Hands to Self”)

These tools give immediate, non-verbal feedback and reminders that support self-control and understanding.


III. Strategies for Addressing Inappropriate Behavior Effectively

1. Use Positive Reinforcement and Clear Consequences

When a student shows appropriate behavior, reinforce it right away. This builds motivation and reinforces positive habits.

Examples of positive reinforcement:

  • Verbal praise (“I like how you’re sitting quietly!”)
  • Earning tokens or stickers toward a reward
  • Extra break time or choosing a preferred activity

At the same time, be consistent with consequences for inappropriate behavior:

  • Use a calm, neutral tone
  • Link the consequence directly to the behavior
  • Follow through every time

2. Teach Self-Regulation and Coping Skills

Many behaviors are a result of frustration, sensory overload, or emotional dysregulation. Teaching calming strategies is essential.

Ideas for teaching self-regulation:

  • Deep breathing exercises
  • Use of a calm corner with fidget tools or visual timers
  • Teaching students to label emotions using an “emotions chart”

By helping students recognize their feelings and choose tools to calm down, you empower them to manage their own behavior.

3. Respond with Understanding, Not Punishment

Punishment alone does not teach the right behavior. Instead, use incidents as teaching moments.

  • Debrief privately with the student after an outburst.
  • Ask questions like, “What happened? What can we do next time?”
  • Help the student practice a better response.

Behavior is communication. If we respond with patience and problem-solving, students will feel supported, not shamed.


IV. Tools and Resources to Support Teachers

1. Ready-Made Behavior Worksheets and Social Stories

Don’t start from scratch. There are many printable and digital resources designed for autism classrooms.

Look for:

  • Social stories that model appropriate behaviors
  • Worksheets comparing “expected” vs “unexpected” actions
  • Visual scenarios with choices and consequences

These tools are especially useful for reinforcing lessons in small group or one-on-one settings.

2. Behavior Tracking and Progress Monitoring Tools

Data helps teachers understand behavior patterns and measure growth.

Helpful tools include:

  • ABC charts (Antecedent, Behavior, Consequence)
  • Behavior journals
  • Weekly progress charts or sticker systems

By tracking behavior, you can spot trends (like time of day or setting) and adjust your strategies.

3. Collaborating with Support Staff and Families

Behavior support works best when everyone is on the same page.

Tips for collaboration:

  • Share behavior goals in IEP meetings
  • Communicate frequently with parents about progress
  • Work with speech therapists, behavior specialists, and aides

Consistency across home and school helps students internalize skills faster.


V. Conclusion: Empowering Teachers and Supporting Students

1. Recap the Importance of Teaching Behavior Skills

Teaching behavior is as important as teaching reading or math. Students with autism benefit from clear, consistent, and compassionate instruction about how to behave appropriately in a group setting.

2. Encourage Patience, Progress, and Partnership

Behavior change doesn’t happen overnight. Teachers who approach their students with patience and a problem-solving mindset make the biggest impact.

  • Celebrate small wins
  • Keep expectations realistic
  • Lean on your support team

3. Start Small, Stay Consistent

Choose one strategy or tool to start with this week. Maybe it’s a visual cue card or a new social story. Consistency is key—once students know what to expect, they can rise to meet those expectations.

Every child can learn appropriate behavior with the right support. As educators, we have the tools to help them grow—one interaction at a time.


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